Positive thought: Before you react-Quick to listen, slow to speak
My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angryโ (James 1:19)
Some people are usually worked up for nothing. They get angry or are annoyed just like that. But all including you and I need to be careful lest we throw tantrums for nothing. Here is what Iโm trying to pass on:
1.ย ย ย ย ย ย Some people have a tendency to twist ,alter, add, or subtract facts
2.ย ย ย ย ย ย What is saidย ย usually changes as its passed on from one person to the other
3.ย ย ย ย ย ย Some information is usually based on hearsay (He said, she said)
4.ย ย ย ย ย ย Some people treat gossip as a hobby. Nothing makes them happy asย ย character assassination does
Therefore,
1.ย ย ย ย ย ย Be carefulย ย of what you hear, read, write or pass on
2.ย ย ย ย ย ย Donโt start circulating information that you cannot defend
3.ย ย ย ย ย ย Do not be easily annoyed until you have all facts. Often times, people have regretted to find out that they were spreading nothing but rumors
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Each one of us has got power and the will to change the way we view others/things. It will help to always stay on the positive side. Here is where the golden rule applies,โWhatsoever things you want others to do to you,do also to themโ (Matthew 7:12). Just let us remember that it doesnโt benefitโฆ
Positive thought: Before you react-Quick to listen, slow to speak